Even though a certain person might know how you feel towards him/her, they still need to hear it. It is nice to give and receive love and appreciation to and from those who are worth it.
I totally agree. It's always good to know that there are people who appreciate, love and care for you, not necessarily by only telling you this, but sometimes a simple action can tell a million words.
I was wondering lately about the concept of friendship, how some people consider you as a "friend" and categorize you as a "friend" yet make no effort to show the mere sign of this friendship. I don't know, maybe it's me, I give more importance to this term and consider friendship as a more deep and intimate relationship than a superficial one that goes no further than knowing one anothers' names so we're friends and that's it.
Friendship is more precious to me than that. It's a mixture of mutual sweet feelings of love, care, sharing, help, and trust . I always do my best not to ignore my friends and even when I'm busy I try to show that I'm there and that I care from time to time, just a reminder that I'm not ignoring and that they're always on my mind. Yet, it isn't really nice to suddenly realize that you're recieving nothing in return! and that whether you showed up or not, whether you asked or not, they just don't give a damn. And they still have the nerve to call you friend!
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i have along talk about this ...
mmmmmmmmmm very interesting topic .... for me friendship means a lot, more than anything. sometimes it comes above the blood relation !! but seriously u just can't call anybody being nice to u a friend .... or u talk to someone few times and told him/her things about ur self will be labeled as a friend ..... some people when u don't talk to them for a while they just forget that u exist and this is not friendship cuz u don't have to remind ur friend with ur presence they just care and know ....
seriously I don't know what to say i have so many things to say but don't have the words ....
Friendships differ. There are close friends, and normal friends. It is nice for friends to prove their friendship everyone once in a while with a certain word or gesture.
I agree with Mitsuki. Friendship is all about caring and sharing certain things that make you feel grateful about having a friend.
Friendship is like any relationship,it has to be nourished by both sides. Like they say here: "It takes two to tango".
Noura
قال الشافعي عن الصداقة
اذا الـــمرء لا يرعاك الا تـــــكـــــــلفاً
فدعـــه ولا تـــكثر علـــــيه التأســـــفا
فــفي الناس ابدال وفي الـــترك راحـة
وفي القـــلب صبراً للحـــبيب ولو جفا
فــما كل من تهـــواه يــــــهواك قـــلبه
ولا كـــل من صافـــيته لك قد صـــفا
اذا لم يــــكن صفـــــوا الوداد طــبيعة
فلا خـــير في خـــل يـــــجيء تــكلفاً
ولا خــــير في خل يخــــون خليــلــه
ويلـــقـــاه من بعد الـــمودة بالـــجــفا
وينــــكر عيـشاً قد تـــقادم عــهـــــده
ويظــهر سـراً كان بالامــس قد خـفا
ســـــلام على الدنـيا اذا لم يــكن بـها
صديق صدوق صادق الوعد منصفا
Sorry for the long comment. But thought his words are worth reading with regards to friendship :)
Qabbani:
go ahead, fadfed :D
Simsim:
that's exactly what I was talking about!
Mitsuki:
Very true, thanx for sharing the lovely quotes :)
Dima, Hala, and Noura:
True! I agree with you.
The Mo:
great one! thanx for sharing!
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