Monday, June 04, 2007

just wondering...


Do difficulties and hard times that we continuously go through weaken us? or make us stronger?

14 comments:

Abed. Hamdan said...

I don't know, really I don't!

They just make me feel bad, and I'm tired of the continuous agonies..

Maher said...

some difficulties make you stronger while other make you weak

but more importantly they will give you the experiance to know how to deal with them next time

Wedad... said...

It depends .. sometimes it does weaken us.. 7atta law we pretended the opposite

Ammar said...

difficulties make us weak in the short term, like illnesses, but that period of weakness leaves a wall..a barrier that defends one against future expected difficulties, it wouldn't hurt as much the second time, but it still hurts.

did that make sense?

Mnoosh said...

AbsaR :|
I second Ammar.. bser elwa7d d'3eef be wa2t eldifficulties, b3den be2wa :???:

Loza said...

when we are in the middle of the difficulty, we feel we are very weak.. lost and have no hope.. but once the difficulty seem to have an end, we can recover and become stronger..

some difficulties keep on digging and eating us from inside.. but difenetely we are not the same after being through a difficulty

PŕōuđPāŀĩ said...
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PŕōuđPāŀĩ said...

since there rnt any editing options, and there was a typo, here we go again :D

ana 3akx loza tamaman illi bidi 2oulo :D

personally, i donno where i get the strength to overcome tiring times, i faj2a become so collected and calm and focused, ignoring completely all fear and insecurities that might be messing with my mind. w ba3d ma tmur il mushkeleh i crack. its like all the effort it took me to be this calm and collected breaks me down with full vulnerability after the incident is done with. il muhem akun t5a6eit-ha.

in general, i think it depends on the person. some ppl never learn, and some ppl embrace the lessons in disguise..

SimSim said...

it weaken me :( thu we might pretend the opposite

Noura said...

I think for the long term, it will definitely make us weaker.. these difficulties are chipping away a bit of us, of our resistance every time they occur, so we are bound in time to fall under the pressure..
If not, the change in us is not promissing and life will be seen through dark glasses..But through it all,we will keep on pretending that we are unbreakable !!

Mrs. Al Ramahi said...

it depends..but hopefully, eventually should make us stronger.. hmm.. dont know :S

Diana said...

interesting
so, it depends, apparently.

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

you feel weak when u are in those times but when they finally pass that is when you feel strong..

right now im in the weak phase.. when i overcome it inshala i will let you know :)

Diana said...

Dandoon, may God grant you all strength and patience that you need to pass this stage :hug: